Leaving the playground — age 4
Your child is enjoying the swings. When it is time to leave, they cry, sit down and refuse to move.
First acknowledge the disappointment: You really wanted to stay. It’s hard to leave when you’re having fun.
Gently remind them that it’s time to go, and that you’re here to help.
If Animal Walk is already familiar and enjoyable, you might offer: Would you like to walk with me or try your animal walk on the way out?
If they want closeness, Ask for a Hug could be another option. A hug remains their choice.
If neither option appeals, put the cards aside. Stay present, keep the boundary clear, and offer support as you navigate the transition together.
Later, during a calm moment, you can practise the transition through play and explore which card your child might like to try next time.